Lemonade Chronicles

Life; Gently Squeezed

Deciding when to Die

Brittany Maynard is a young 29-year-old woman suffering with brain cancer. Brittany MaynardHer story is hard to read about without having some level of sympathy for her and some level of agreement with her wanting the choice to choose when she will die by her own hands.

Read her story here.

I cannot imagine being in her position and having to decide these sorts of things–her family, her pain, the cost to her family, etc…

This has sparked a serious debate on human euthanasia — giving one the option of when to choose to die. This is NOT considered suicide as the method of death as it is usually decided on after medical consultation.

While I have trouble with the idea of choosing when do die, I am not in Brittany’s shoes.

We are presented with a significant challenge with this debate and here are my thoughts on those challenges.

Who decides on the applicable age at which someone can make this decision for themselves? Do we let doctors decide? The Supreme Court? The family of the affected person?

What happens with a ‘minor’ who has a terminal disease and will probably suffer before dying from this disease — who has not yet reached the age decided on above? Does that person not have this option? Do we give this option to the parents to decide for those minors? Do we let the courts decide if they can exercise this option? Is it discrimination if we don’t let a minor exercise this option?

What about people stricken with any level of dementia? They too will suffer, but who decides if they can be offered human euthanasia?

Nearly 40 years ago I watched my mother die of lung cancer. It was physically and emotionally painful for her and emotionally painful for us (my dad and our 10 siblings). I think back on that time and wonder if she would’ve wanted this option?

There is no easy answer on this, but I think before we rush to enact laws to allow it we need to consider the impact to the issues I raised above.

What do you think?

A “Fishy” Story?

You know why Christians use the fish symbol on the back of their cars, right?

Well let’s test just how well you know the history of the fish symbol. The Christian "Fish"With all that is going in in northern Iraq with ISIS killing Christians and others who won’t convert to Islam it might be very applicable today.

When we were kids – well at least when I was a kid – we had special ways of communicating with our friends. We might wave a certain wave or we might all wear the same hat or we might all have a special word that only our closest friends knew the meaning of. We did this out of friendship, but sometimes if we were playing “Cowboys and Indians” or “Cops and Robbers” we might have a special way to communicate so we knew who we could trust.

Click here to continue reading this story to see how Christians needed a special way to communicate.



Only the toughest survive in the harsh Arizona climate. And even then, the toughest sometimes succumb to the realities of the life cycle.

The Rigors of Arizona Desert Life

The Rigors of Arizona Desert Life

Hiking through the Usery Mountain Recreation Area with my wife, Patti, I came across a cactus that had seen better days. The texture of the inside demanded my attention and made me think about the challenges life throws at us and what those challenges can do to us. (more…)

The Bowling Ball

 Bowling balls, for those who live outside New England, are large spheres, about the size of a soccer ball. They are made of compressed plastic or resin and have three holes (two finger and one thumb) to make gripping a ball this size easier. These spheres are used in ten-pin bowling and are measured in pounds. Their weight ranges, typically, between six and sixteen pounds. (more…)

New Suits

New Suits by Rick Forristall

The seemingly innocuous task of buying a suit takes on a whole new meaning

The seemingly innocuous task of buying a suit takes on a whole new meaning

“Okay guys, it’s time to go,” Dad said to us, somberly. His challenges were plenty during those days – most would consider them insurmountable. This day’s required activity surely didn’t make his life any easier – spending money he didn’t have for an event he probably wished away, four hundred or ten thousand times every day.


Chance Encounters

Chance Encounters  by Rick Forristall

“Attention airport guests! US Airways flight 129 is now in its final boarding process. Please proceed to Gate 45 for immediate boarding,” he heard, frustrated that he overslept. Looking down at his boarding pass, nearly running now, he sensed the intrusion and impending collision. (more…)